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Stages of life

 Let it end .let it hurt .Let it heal and let it go.This is a quote which I like because it's tell us about the stages of life that we all go through.  There will be obstacles that we can't face in life, and you will get defeated, so let it end. It will hurt for some time, and you will feel that you haven't tried your best to make it right, and you will feel guilty about some of the past choices you had made and wish to go back in time and make things right, but it will still hurt you. We have to learn to heal step by step from your past mistakes so that it doesn't happen again and you can grow and flourish into a tall tree.Be strong, but always remember there will be obstacles, and it's ok to fail sometimes. Let it go; the past will be the past. You can't do anything about it, but you can always make your own future.

Toxic relationship

 Even though I need you but I still feel so odd with you. The distance that you have created seems off when I am there with you.  The wounds you gave me were so deep but I didn’t even know you that well. It didn’t seem like it was you. My head isn’t working. I can’t believe this is your personality. I should have seen the sign that everyone told me to see. It’s getting bad each day but I still can’t get out of your trap.  Its suffocating to stay in the bubble that you have created only for me. So, tell me why do I still have bruises every now and then. Your love is unpredictable that I can’t stand to leave you because once you say that you love me and another time you say that I am nothing without you.  It’s like the earth is shaking below my feet. There is an earthquake inside my head that is making me tired. I am fed up but I still fall into your trap. How can I escape this reality that seems like a dream to me. I can't help to notice that I am changing myself for ...

Self care

  Life is confusing sometimes because you don't know what is really right for you, but you still hope that you can see the right path made just for you. This journey will be hard to achieve; it will look impossible, with a lot of late-night crying, procrastination, and intrusive thoughts going through your head as if this life wasn't enough with your studies and work-life. It's also important to maintain a balance that is healthy in your life so that when you get a lot of load on your shoulder, you can break it down into small manageable pieces. It will be easier to manage it too. You should also not forget about yourself in the mess that is going on in your life. Take time to recuperate and just enjoy this one life that you have to live to the fullest. Self-care is also important. Do it now, because later  becomes never .

Unexpected Blessing

 Sometimes, people breaking your trust can be good for you because it teaches you life lessons. Some people might want the best for you, which is why they break your trust. For example, you wouldn't have learned to ride a bicycle or navigate the monkey bars in a park if someone you trusted hadn't let go. You'll feel betrayed and angry by the person who you trusted the most, but they only wanted the best for you. It's difficult to trust a person if they've betrayed you, but if they wanted you to grow and become someone great, they might have thought this was the best option, since we all learn from our mistakes. However, trusting them again after they've betrayed you requires a lot of effort. It can also lead to personal growth, independence, and a deeper understanding of ourselves.